Great Fiction to Read Patchett, Evans

I’ve been reading a lot lately, instead of running and hiking. It’s been so cold here (22 degrees as I write this) and I just want to sit on the sofa and read, with my dogs next to me. 

All my fiction-reading started with a review of the book, The Correspondent. I haven’t read fiction in a long time so I thought it would be a good change. When I looked at my bookshelf for something to read – all I saw was nonfiction. I needed to escape into fiction. 

The Correspondent is a book of letters that the main character wrote to her friends, family, authors and newspapers. What made this book so special to me was how deeply invested I became in all of the characters. They felt real to me and I could imagine where they lived and how they looked. I cared about their choices, their regrets, and the things they wrote to each other. 

I couldn’t put the book down and read it in two days. By the end, I was crying my eyes out.

The main character did all the things she was scared of. She was one tough woman. She made some bad choices throughout her life, like we all do.  It reminded me how powerful people’s stories are, and it made me want to write letters, reach out to family, friends AND newspapers and tell them exactly how I feel.

More than anything, it was a gentle but persistent reminder to fully live all of our days, no matter our age or where we think we are in life. I also think it was a lesson about aging.

It was my reminder that every person in my life is complex. I will never know what their inner life is. And, I will never truly understand why people do what they do. I think that is why I was balling my eyes out. We can never really know the people we love.

Additionally, I rarely read books from the New York Times Best Sellers list. The Correspondent didn’t land on that list until a full year after publication, purely through word of mouth. I have told every reader in my life, “You have to read this book.” 

After finishing this book, I wanted to start another book as soon as possible. I loved getting back into reading and being so absorbed in a story that I couldn’t wait to wake up to read it or get home from work to read a few chapters. I rarely turned on the TV.

I remembered in The Correspondent , Sybil, the main character wrote a letter to Ann Patchett and Ann wrote back. Sybil wrote to many authors and I thought that was a clever twist, especially when they wrote back so I googled Ann Patchett and read a few reviews of her books. I decided my next read was Tom Lake. I remember hearing about it when it came out but never read it. 

Now, I’m reading it and it’s so good. It takes place in a fictional town in northern Michigan, where I’ve been. Plus, the mom was from New Hampshire and attended the University of New Hampshire, my alma mater. I liked how the story depicted Michigan and New Hampshire, and the fictional summer stock theatre by a lake. The characters are complex and compelling. I was drawn in instantly to the main couples’ story, including the surprise twist in how they met. I loved learning about the personalities of the three daughters. I loved how the mother’s past is slowly revealed through the book. I’m halfway through and can’t put it down (except wanting to write this post – perhaps to draw out the eventual ending to the book)

Patchett is such a great writer and storyteller. I loved, loved, loved her book, The Dutch House and read it twice. I also listened to the audio version narrated by Tom Hanks – so good!

I remembered, too. I saw Patchett speak. It was 2019 and I was living in Concord, New Hampshire. I bought tickets to the event which included a signed copy of her new book, The Dutch House. The talk was held at The Capitol Center for the Arts’ so it was just a short walk downtown. Peter Biello was with her on stage and asked her questions. He worked at NHPR at the time and did a great job on stage. 

I found the above picture in my Google Photos from that night. I sat in the first row and was riveted by the conversation and wanted to learn everything I could about the writing life.

This is what I wrote in my journal from that night:

Ann Patchett was so awesome last night. I started reading The Dutch House once I got home and it’s good. One of the questions that she answered had to do with publishing. She said that it is your name: you do all the editing and make it be representative of your work. She talked about the idea of a home as a central theme in the book. She said our home is where we throw our lives. Home is emotionally charged. Every novel needs a home – it connects people.

She said the book is also about hurt feelings and the things that hurt us in our childhood. The idea that the characters can’t get out of the situation they are in – that is what she likes to write about. 

She said that part of her life she interviews authors and she reads all the time. She has a bookstore in Nashville. She said Margret Atwood’s new book is so good, as is Harlan Cobin. She was funny, smart and made me want to know all her books. 

She said all that matters is the white, hot center of your heart. Find that and write about that. It teaches you to access what you really care about. She said I can’t teach you about having something to say. Writing a novel is like swimming the channel. You have to stay in the present and you can’t look forward and you can’t look back. 

She said find the time to do what you love. If you have something to say you will find the time.

She makes me feel like reading and watching the news and being involved in this crazy world.  Going to an author reading does energize me and brings me back to the world. I laughed and genuinely enjoyed the conversation. She was really engaging.

Twenty years ago I bought Patchett’s 2004 memoir, Truth & Beauty, about her friendship with Lucy Grealy. I thought her story of coming up as a writer was fascinating. 

The point of this post is really just this: Ann Patchett is amazing- Read Her Books!  Virginia Evans is a wonderful storyteller – Read This One. These books have gotten me through a cold, snowy winter in East Tennessee.

2025 A Year in Review

This year was definitely a new year for me, like nothing prior. I didn’t race but had some fun adventures in the mountains all while visiting six states. Some work trips brought me to different places but the trips I want to remember challenged me. And this is why I write – to remember the challenges and know I can finish what I start; most times. 

February kicked things off in Philadelphia, a work trip that took place the week before the Eagles won the Super Bowl. The city turned their buildings green and it was fun to walk around reading cheer signs for the team.  

Later, a trip to finally see Monument Valley in Arizona. I’ve been so close to the area but never turned onto the road to see the monuments. I want to go back again and see more.

Read full blog post here

In March, I stayed closer to home and took a weekend road trip to Boone, Grandfather Mountain, and Blowing Rock with Winnie. It was a low-key adventure with my old dog Winnie who passed away a few months later.  

May was a tough month with Winnie gone, getting new floors installed in my house which created chaos, and work problems. Not a great month. However, June was my planned trip to Colorado for a mountain adventure. While I didn’t run the race i signed up for, I went to Rocky Mountain National Park to re-hike a mountain from my 1988 trip.

Leadville calls me – every year. I missed the mark most years she called, but I finally experienced Hope Pass and a big challenge that has been on my mind.

August I went home to New Hampshire to spend time with Mom, Dad, and Jason. A few weeks later headed to music-filled Nashville with my friend Missy to see Alison Krauss, catch a baseball game, and soak up the city’s energy on Broadway.

September I spent a few days in Cherokee, NC for work and rafting on the Nantahala River with colleagues. Then up to Kingsport for the Tennessee Hospitality Conference; two places I’ve never spend time in.

But the most symbolic moment came shortly after. Finally made it to Bismarck, North Dakota, where I reached a big goal: visiting all 50 states. It wasn’t just this place; it was the completion of an important part of goal setting and challenges – taking the plunge and going to new places, even when I was scared. 

Looking back on the year, I’m not sure how I feel about it all. It has been a tumultuous year for our country and I read too much news. Despite it all, I did some things, I saw some things, walked and fostered shelter dogs, and tried to be a good person.

I want to remember this year and writing this blog helps me reflect because it all seems so long ago and I forget a lot. I did accomplish one big goal – seeing all the states. It feels similar to finishing all the 4,000 footers in NH list. I have so many lists and I have so much to look forward to. 

There is a lot of improvement and goals and dreams for me in 2026. I have no travel plans as of today. No flights or hotels booked. Nothing.

Thanks for reading and following along.

Fall Books I’m Reading – This Contested Land by Long

It’s always this time of year I want to go back to school to get my masters or to learn new skills. I think to myself, I have enough money to go back to school, but then reality hits, and for tens of thousands of dollars I think I want to travel or put in a new kitchen … Maybe, let’s see what next fall brings. 

In the meantime, I’m in full on reading mode because it’s how I learn; and books always make me want to travel.

Last week I was looking through the pile of book and journals next to my sofa, and I started reading a journal that I subscribe to: Western American Literature, a Journal of Literary, Cultural, and Place Studies. The edition was from last Winter but I don’t think I ever read it. I started reading it and got to the book review section and started reading a review of This Contested Land written by McKenzie Long. As I read, I’m underlining and highlighting. 

The reviewer, Talley V. Kayser wrote, “using her own outdoor adventures to frame meditations on the histories, presents, and futures of national monuments in the United States.” I’m intrigued. I keep reading. A quote from Long states: “Monuments are quintessentially American. After all, what is more American than disagreements over the scope of governmental powers.”

Note: National parks are protected due to their scenic, inspirational, education, and recreational value. National monuments have objects of historical, cultural, and/or scientific interest. And, most importantly: Congress designates national parks; presidential proclamations establish national monuments, thus the scope of government powers quote above.

Kayser wrote “Long emphasizes the relations (from romantic affairs to family ties) that shape and sustain her journeys.”

After reading the review, I immediately searched for the book online and bought it through the Glacier National Park Conservancy

When the book arrived I couldn’t put down.  All weekend I worked around reading this book. I enjoyed Long’s writing perspective; an outdoor adventurer telling her personal story with a backdrop of the these 12 national monuments. The writing is crisp and clear; I am taken to each place. I write comments in the margins of my book, and highlight key phrases. I write about how I need to get more involved where I live and advocate for the issues I care about: public lands, clean water, clean air, biodiversity, recreation and conservation.

I’m just thrilled to get back into reading and learning more about the world. I’ll write a full review of each book as soon as I finish. I would love to hear your comments. 

And, I don’t read one book at a time when I’m back on a reading bender. I read several. Here’s what I’ve been reading.

America for Americans; A History of Xenophobia in the United States 

and 

The 12-Week MBA.

ABL – Always be Learning

Bismarck North Dakota, Theodore Roosevelt National Park

I’ve been planning this trip for two years and finally made it to North Dakota and Theodore Roosevelt National Park.

I can now say, I’ve been to every US state. 

Last year I canceled this trip because Hurricane Helene hit my area and I was too afraid to leave. (Read: leave my dogs at a kennel that could be impacted; it wasn’t but I didn’t want to risk it.)

On Thursday, September 18 I finally arrived in North Dakota; on schedule and as planned. My hotel was a bit dated and my room smelled, but an ideal location – close to the airport and walking distance to restaurants. I arrived at midnight which was not ideal, but it was the plan, since the day before I was at a conference.

On Friday morning I slept in a bit and then headed west to Theodore Roosevelt National Park and the South Unit. The drive was all interstate and easy.

I stopped at the Visitor Center and watch the introductory movie. The themes of this park were about extremes. It was the extremes in the land that created this remarkable landscape. These are the Badlands, not to be confused with Badlands National Park. 

Badlands are dry land with sedimentary rocks and clay-type soils that have been extensively eroded producing ravines, buttes, and hoodoos. I read an interesting sign about buttes. They are NOT mountains but created from erosion. 

I loved listening to Roosevelt’s story, North Dakota and the wilderness changed and inspired him. I knew his story from reading Gessner’s book but loved hearing it again. “The rugged landscape and strenuous life that [he] experienced here would help shape a conservation policy that we still benefit from today.”

I drove the Scenic Drive, and stopped at scenic overlooks and hiked from two of the  trailheads. The entire loop wasn’t open so I drove what was. I saw bison and prairie dogs. While hiking on Upper Paddock/Talkington Loop I talked to a couple who were taking pictures of the prairie dogs. I continued for a mile and then turned around. I saw people on horseback in the distance and started to wonder if I would encounter any wildlife. I started to get nervous. As I hiked back I saw the couple again and they showed me a video they took of a coyote. I was in the video – it ran behind me to hunt prairie dogs, and I wasn’t even aware of it. WOW! She sent me the video but it was very blurry but I could see it run behind me and was so glad I didn’t see it. 

I stopped for lunch in Medora – Boots Bar and Grill.

Then I stopped at the Painted Canyon Visitor Center for a final hike. The hike went down into the canyon on a nature trail. 

I took my obligatory selfie in front the the national park sign.

Then drove back to Bismarck and had dinner downtown. I walked around the city and then headed back to the hotel. 

North Dakota is in the exact center of North America, which is a perfect way to end my quest to see every state in the US. 

I still have so many lists and so adventures I want to experience. There is so much to see and do.

There are no ideal conditions

The picture above is from hiking Mount Washington in New Hampshire April 2022.

It could’ve been warm and sunny at the top of the mountain, or knarly and windy at 6,288 feet. It was pretty perfect. Cold, windy but not life threatening. It’s always a toss up.

My point, and what I’ve been reflecting on lately is there are no ideal conditions. Whatever I am meant to do, I need to do it now. Conditions are always going to be unfavorable.

The term favorable conditions is interesting because I work in the outdoor/travel industry. If you work in the outdoor industry “favorable conditions” is an indicator you are watching the weather.

As an endurance athlete I watch the weather.

As a marketer in the outdoor industry I watch the weather.

But now more than ever it’s about asking myself what am I meant to do and figuring out how to make it happen. It needs to happen. I need to make it through unfavorable conditions to be where I want to be.

The things I can control include: doing the plan, run, bike, hike, learn new skills, walk the dog more, show up, and most importantly do what I say I’m going to do.

A plan for this fall season is I’m going to let go of all the things I can’t control; and focus on the things I can control. By doing this I might just do all the things I want to do.

Thanks for reading.